When I first found my coach, it happened in a minute. I had browsed through several coaches' website over a few years, and never felt like taking on the commitment of working with a coach. It always seemed too expensive and too big a part of my monthly budget. I had spent thousands of dollars on different courses and felt that was justified, but to pay a life coach regularly...no.
Then I reached a space where I suddenly picked up the phone, called up a coach and said "Yes, I want to work with you". Come to think of it, I never even read the articles on the coach's website. Something just drew me to her.
It was energy that drew me to her. I had reached an energetic vibration where I was open and allowing for a coach to come in and work with me. I was available energetically to working with a coach, and not just any coach, but with that specific coach. I was drawn to her like a magnet.
Then I realized that I was in a space of availability and that this space of availability was essential for any 'goodness' to come in.
In the Law of Attraction, a lot of importance is given to 'Allowingness' which is the state where a person asks for something and knows that it will come in and in this knowingness, he also allows it to come in.
For example, if you ask the Universe to get you a specific type of car, the Universe will oblige. But you have to be in the space to allow that car to come in. Worrying about making its payments, will just put a huge block, which will prevent you from getting that car. You have to know that you can pay for it, and then that will create a space of allowingness for the car to come.
Fear is the biggest obstacle to the Law of Attraction working for you. The notion of the impossibility of things happening keeps things away from you. Availability creates a state of allowingness which then allows the energy of whatever you asked for to enter into your life.
Try this on small things and then proceed to bigger and seemingly tougher things to attain. Example, ask for a great pair of shoes (knowing all the time that it is within your budget). As this pair of shoes is already within your budget, there won't be any resistance to it. And when the Universe tries to deliver it to you, you will be receiving it with joy.
Next, try the state of availability with something just a bit off your budget, and soon you will see that you can expand your mind to allow more and more. And one day you may even ask that the seas be parted for you, and if your mind believes it, it can happen.
Of course knowing the metaphysics of things also places us in a place of responsibility otherwise the lack of responsibility then comes back to bite us. It is great to desire, but the desires must be in a natural order of what you will need for the next stage of life.
You rule your desires; the desires do not rule you.